'Hear what?' I hear you say.
The quiet.
If you listen carefully, it IS there. You just have to focus on it & listen out for it.
A few weeks back when we had a little family holiday at the beach, I was mostly disconnected from internet noise. I instagrammed my holiday & I spent all my time watching night time movies with my husband & playing & exploring with my kids during the day. Thats about it. Lots of fresh air. Who knew colelcting rocks could be so soothing?
For the first time in a long time I felt the disconnection from the media noise and quite honestly, it was grand.

I do actually love being connected. I like knowing what is going on in the world.
I'm also surrounded by technology that connects me to people - adults who can have conversations, that I can relate to, be inspired by, who have interesting ideas & opinions. I seek out those types and the connections are invaluable to someone like me, who has very little social life & spends most of my time alone or with the kids.
But sometimes its good to disconnect too.

There can be alot of noise.
The internet is very very noisy. I love the internet but I find myself sometimes, actually often, frustrated & annoyed & all fired up when its narky & cruel & spitting out the same meaningless stuff out over & over.
When the news programs are filled with sadness & horror & stupidity.
When morning shows or blogs or high profile columns have endless social commentating on anything and everything.
Its exhausting. Its nervewracking. Its enough to put anyone into a mood or drive them totally batty on any given day.
But if you connect in some way, there you go..... it all hits you, twitter noise, facebook noise, blog noise, TV noise, high profile digi newspapers/blogs - all wanting to suck you in and chew up your time.
Your precious time. And you never get it back. Thats not so bad if its time worth spending. But is it? There is lots of good, but its a weeding out process. And that takes time.

I'm not much of a radio listener but when I found out there was a segment with one of my favourite media personalities in it, I started switching on to listen. One or two shows later & I realise sadly, its not so great afterall. You have to listen so carefully to hear the radio announcers speaking between all the huge blocks of advertising. NOISE!!!!! So I switched off.
I get daily digests from several high profile digi sources & if I have some idle time, I will scroll through and look at the articles. They are all so clever at sucking you in with their catchy 'article' titles & making you think you really need to read this or that. Before you know it..... you are fired up or upset or feeling inadequate or or or or....
Lately I have been going on an 'unsubscribe bender'. There's too many things that I get sucked into reading. And honestly I'd rather make my own choices of what to read rather than being fed a selection of what someone else chose for me.

Over the last years few years I have made a point of not reading many blogs. For lack of time reasons really. I figured if I had time I should be recording my own creative life with my children. Recently I've had a shift in thinking.
There are some lovely little blogging gems out there that have the ability to make me feel worthwhile, valued, inspired. So I have created a list over at Bloglovin & although I still don't read many blogs, I have sought out some simple & interesting blogs that make feel good & positive when I read them.
I love reading about families, about constructive families, about family living, home organisation. About creative art types, foodies, people interesting in simple living, decorating homes on budget & a variety of blogging friends who are all crafty peeps.
So I am re-training my brain right now to continue the 'unsubscribe' bender and when I do have those few moments, to go check my blogroll list & check in with a little family or young energetic decorator or whatever else takes my fancy for that day.
And when there are just too many things on my plate & it all gets too much, I can always totally disconnect.
And there it is.... the quiet.
The quiet so I can focus on my family, my house & my making.
Ahhhhh the serenity.